{"id":9,"date":"2018-09-14T21:19:15","date_gmt":"2018-09-14T21:19:15","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/shushit.com\/?page_id=9"},"modified":"2020-04-29T08:21:39","modified_gmt":"2020-04-29T08:21:39","slug":"about","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"https:\/\/shushit.com\/?page_id=9","title":{"rendered":"About"},"content":{"rendered":"<div class=\"wpb-content-wrapper\"><p>[vc_row padding_top_multiplier=&#8221;&#8221; padding_bottom_multiplier=&#8221;&#8221;][vc_column rc_bg_type=&#8221;color&#8221; expand_column_bg=&#8221;expand-bg-left&#8221; clipping_animation=&#8221;colored-clipping-left&#8221; clipping_animation_colors=&#8221;primary-1&#8243; rc_bg_color=&#8221;#ffad33&#8243;]<div class=\"eut-empty-space eut-height-2x\" style=\"\"><\/div>[\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row padding_top_multiplier=&#8221;4x&#8221; padding_bottom_multiplier=&#8221;4x&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/6&#8243;][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243; rc_heading_color=&#8221;light&#8221;]<h2 class=\"eut-element eut-title eut-align-inherit eut-h1 eut-title-gradient eut-gradient-1-primary-1 eut-gradient-2-green\" style=\"\"><span>Sometimes people just need<br \/>\nto know what&#8217;s up<\/span><\/h2>[vc_column_text text_style=&#8221;leader-text&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h5><span style=\"color: #999999;\">Remember that each person is different, so they will have different boundaries. You can respect these different boundaries by listening fully and paying attention to verbal and nonverbal cues. I hate to sound brutal, but nobody pays attention to what you\u2019re saying as much as\u00a0<em>you<\/em> do. Shushit.com was created for people who don&#8217;t always think before they act or speak in hopes of enlightening them on their surroundings more. Please share this site with those whom you feel can benefit the most and just tell them to &#8220;SHUSHiT.com&#8221;<\/span><\/h5>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/6&#8243;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row padding_top_multiplier=&#8221;&#8221; padding_bottom_multiplier=&#8221;&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243; rc_bg_type=&#8221;color&#8221; expand_column_bg=&#8221;expand-bg-right&#8221; clipping_animation=&#8221;colored-clipping-right&#8221; clipping_animation_colors=&#8221;primary-1&#8243; rc_bg_color=&#8221;#ffad33&#8243;]<div class=\"eut-element eut-image eut-align-center\" style=\"\"><div class=\"eut-image-wrapper eut-popup-item\" style=\"max-width:2121px;\"><div class=\"eut-thumbnail-wrapper\"  style=\"max-width: 2121px;\"><div class=\"eut-thumbnail\"  style=\"padding-top: 66.667%;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2121\" height=\"1414\" src=\"https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846452.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full eut-lazy-load lazyload\" alt=\"\" data-eutf-filter=\"yes\" srcset=\"https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/themes\/crocal\/images\/empty\/empty.png\" data-src=\"https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846452.jpg\" data-sizes=\"auto\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846452.jpg 2121w, https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846452-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846452-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846452-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846452-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846452-1920x1280.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846452-600x400.jpg 600w\" data-expand=\"1\" \/><\/div><\/div>  <\/div><\/div>[\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/3&#8243;]<div class=\"eut-element eut-fancy-box eut-bg-dark-grey eut-5 eut-align-left\" style=\"\">  <div class=\"eut-fancy-box-inner\"><h3 class=\"eut-title eut-heading-color eut-h3\" style=\"\">HOW TO REDEEM YOURSELF...<\/h3>  <div class=\"eut-description\">Chances are you have some blind spots about your communication strengths and development areas. Find a few trusted colleagues to give you\u00a0honest, helpful, specific\u00a0feedback.\u00a0Ask them to let you know when they see you making helpful contributions to the conversation, and when they experience you as talking too much or too loud especially without adding much value.<\/div>  <\/div>  <div class=\"eut-fancy-box-bg eut-5 eut-bg-red\"><\/div><\/div>[\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row section_type=&#8221;fullwidth&#8221; padding_top_multiplier=&#8221;4x&#8221; padding_bottom_multiplier=&#8221;4x&#8221; tablet_sm_columns_vertical_gap=&#8221;30&#8243;][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243; content_width=&#8221;80&#8243; horizontal_content_position=&#8221;center&#8221; rc_heading_color=&#8221;dark&#8221; rc_bg_type=&#8221;color&#8221; expand_column_bg=&#8221;expand-bg-left&#8221; clipping_animation=&#8221;colored-clipping-left&#8221; tablet_sm_width=&#8221;1&#8243; mobile_text_align=&#8221;center&#8221; rc_bg_color=&#8221;#2a2a2a&#8221; css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1571514913710{padding-right: 4px !important;}&#8221;]<div class=\"eut-empty-space eut-height-2x\" style=\"\"><\/div><h2 class=\"eut-element eut-title eut-align-inherit eut-h2\" style=\"\"><span><span style=\"color: #808080;\">big five personality traits<\/span><br \/>\n<span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">what makes us different&#8230;<\/span><\/span><\/h2>[vc_row_inner padding_bottom_multiplier=&#8221;&#8221;][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/3&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;1-2&#8243;]<h3 class=\"eut-element eut-title eut-align-inherit eut-h1\" style=\"\"><span>01.<\/span><\/h3>[vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">Openness<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/3&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;1-2&#8243;]<h3 class=\"eut-element eut-title eut-align-inherit eut-h1\" style=\"\"><span>02.<\/span><\/h3>[vc_column_text text_style=&#8221;leader-text&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">Neuroticism<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/3&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;1-2&#8243;]<h3 class=\"eut-element eut-title eut-align-inherit eut-h1\" style=\"\"><span>03.<\/span><\/h3>[vc_column_text text_style=&#8221;subtitle&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">Extraversion<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner][vc_row_inner padding_bottom_multiplier=&#8221;&#8221;][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/3&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;1-2&#8243;]<h3 class=\"eut-element eut-title eut-align-inherit eut-h1\" style=\"\"><span>04.<\/span><\/h3>[vc_column_text text_style=&#8221;leader-text&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">Agreeableness<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][vc_column_inner width=&#8221;1\/3&#8243; mobile_width=&#8221;1-2&#8243;]<h3 class=\"eut-element eut-title eut-align-inherit eut-h1\" style=\"\"><span>05.<\/span><\/h3>[vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h4><span style=\"color: #ffffff;\">Conscientiousness<\/span><\/h4>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column_inner][\/vc_row_inner]<div class=\"eut-empty-space eut-height-2x\" style=\"\"><\/div>[\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/2&#8243; content_width=&#8221;75&#8243; horizontal_content_position=&#8221;center&#8221; vertical_content_position=&#8221;middle&#8221; tablet_sm_width=&#8221;1&#8243; mobile_text_align=&#8221;center&#8221;]<h3 class=\"eut-element eut-title eut-align-inherit eut-h4\" style=\"\"><span><strong>Average:<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>[vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1571513375684{padding-bottom: 2px !important;}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h6>The most common type are people who are high in neuroticism and extraversion while lower in openness.<\/h6>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text]<div class=\"eut-empty-space eut-height-1x\" style=\"\"><\/div><h3 class=\"eut-element eut-title eut-align-inherit eut-h4\" style=\"\"><span><strong>Reserved:<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>[vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1571513369045{padding-bottom: 2px !important;}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h6>People in this type are not open or neurotic but they are emotionally stable. They tend to be introverted, agreeable and conscientious.<\/h6>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text]<div class=\"eut-empty-space eut-height-1x\" style=\"\"><\/div><h3 class=\"eut-element eut-title eut-align-inherit eut-h4\" style=\"\"><span><strong>Role-models:<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>[vc_column_text css=&#8221;.vc_custom_1571513361294{padding-bottom: 2px !important;}&#8221;]<\/p>\n<h6>These people are natural leaders with low levels of neuroticism and high levels of agreeableness, extraversion, openness and conscientiousness. They listen to new ideas and are reliable.<\/h6>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text]<div class=\"eut-empty-space eut-height-1x\" style=\"\"><\/div><h3 class=\"eut-element eut-title eut-align-inherit eut-h4\" style=\"\"><span><strong>Self-centered:<\/strong><\/span><\/h3>[vc_column_text]<\/p>\n<h6>While these people score high in extraversion they rank below average openness, agreeableness and conscientiousness.<\/h6>\n<p>[\/vc_column_text][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row padding_top_multiplier=&#8221;&#8221; padding_bottom_multiplier=&#8221;&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243; rc_bg_type=&#8221;color&#8221; expand_column_bg=&#8221;expand-bg-right&#8221; clipping_animation=&#8221;colored-clipping-right&#8221; clipping_animation_colors=&#8221;primary-1&#8243; rc_bg_color=&#8221;#ffad33&#8243;]<div class=\"eut-element eut-image eut-align-center\" style=\"\"><div class=\"eut-image-wrapper eut-popup-item\" style=\"max-width:2121px;\"><div class=\"eut-thumbnail-wrapper\"  style=\"max-width: 2121px;\"><div class=\"eut-thumbnail\"  style=\"padding-top: 66.667%;\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"2121\" height=\"1414\" src=\"https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846436.jpg\" class=\"attachment-full size-full eut-lazy-load lazyload\" alt=\"\" data-eutf-filter=\"yes\" srcset=\"https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/themes\/crocal\/images\/empty\/empty.png\" data-src=\"https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846436.jpg\" data-sizes=\"auto\" data-srcset=\"https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846436.jpg 2121w, https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846436-300x200.jpg 300w, https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846436-1024x683.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846436-768x512.jpg 768w, https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846436-1536x1024.jpg 1536w, https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846436-1920x1280.jpg 1920w, https:\/\/shushit.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/11\/GettyImages-1063846436-600x400.jpg 600w\" data-expand=\"1\" \/><\/div><\/div>  <\/div><\/div>[\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/3&#8243;]<div class=\"eut-element eut-fancy-box eut-bg-dark-grey eut-5 eut-align-left\" style=\"\">  <div class=\"eut-fancy-box-inner\"><h3 class=\"eut-title eut-heading-color eut-h3\" style=\"\">ITS ALL ABOUT BEING CONSIDERATE<\/h3>  <div class=\"eut-description\">We could all probably be more considerate of others: this word means you&#8217;re thinking of other people \u2014 considering them \u2014 and then treating them decently and with respect. It&#8217;s considerate to say &#8220;please&#8221; and &#8220;thank you&#8221; to people. It&#8217;s considerate to excuse yourself, rather than walking out and slamming the door. A considerate person is kind and thoughtful \u2014 a good person to know.<\/div>  <\/div>  <div class=\"eut-fancy-box-bg eut-5 eut-bg-red\"><\/div><\/div>[\/vc_column][\/vc_row]<\/p>\n<\/div>","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>[vc_row padding_top_multiplier=&#8221;&#8221; padding_bottom_multiplier=&#8221;&#8221;][vc_column rc_bg_type=&#8221;color&#8221; expand_column_bg=&#8221;expand-bg-left&#8221; clipping_animation=&#8221;colored-clipping-left&#8221; clipping_animation_colors=&#8221;primary-1&#8243; rc_bg_color=&#8221;#ffad33&#8243;][\/vc_column][\/vc_row][vc_row padding_top_multiplier=&#8221;4x&#8221; padding_bottom_multiplier=&#8221;4x&#8221;][vc_column width=&#8221;1\/6&#8243;][\/vc_column][vc_column width=&#8221;2\/3&#8243; rc_heading_color=&#8221;light&#8221;][vc_column_text text_style=&#8221;leader-text&#8221;] Remember that each person is different, so they will have different boundaries. You can respect these different boundaries by listening fully and paying attention to verbal and nonverbal cues. 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